Sunday, January 20, 2008
Zalman had this scab on his finger, and all around its circumference it was red and puffy. I was concerned, and wanted to take him to the pediatrician. Yaakov said, "it's nothing, all kids get boo-boos."
He had the red, puffy boo-boo for about a week and I kept my eye on it. Last Monday night I looked at it, and it had turned yellowish-green around the scab. "Tomorrow I am taking him to the doctor," I told Yaakov. "It's infected, and I'll bet he's going to put him on antibiotic." Yaakov waved me off.
The pediatrician was very concerned. "Oooh, that looks bad," he said, knitting his brow. "That looks bacterial. I'm going to culture it." He squeezed Zalman's pinkie finger and swabbed the yellow pus - while poor Zalman screamed his head off. He put him on an antibiotic and told me he'd call in a few days, when the lab results were in. I told the doctor I'd been concerned for about a week already, but Yaakov told me not to worry about it. He rolled his eyes. "All fathers are like that," he laughed. "It's the mothers who know what's going on." (Yeah, but what if the mother's an Anxiety Maven?)
Erev shabbos I got a phone call: "Mrs. Maven? It's Dr. B. Your son has a staph infection." If I tell you my heart stopped at that moment, I would not be exaggerating. A staph infection? How did that happen? He went on to explain it was MRSA. He explained how the antibiotic he had given me (Augmentin) is composed of 2 different components. The staph would NOT have responded to one (amoxicillin). He said potentially, staph could respond to the other (clavulanate potassium). I could hear the gravity in his voice: we got lucky. He switched Zalman to Bactram (an antibiotic more suited for staph) and we wished each other a gut shabbos. So far, he's had 5 doses of the Bactram, and Baruch Hashem, his finger looks good. Dr. B is very pleased.
I don't need to say (kin ayin hara) what the drastic end of staph can be. What if Zalman had a case of the poops, or his immune system was weak in other ways? How would he have responded to this infection? What would have happened if I didn't go to the doctor? What if the infection spread to the other kids...
I could not help but think of a saying attributed to Rebbe Nachman of Breslov: "If we only understood how at every moment it's as if we are literally drowning. We don't realize how G-d is constantly saving us..."
5 Comments:
At 10:05 PM, Ayelet Survivor said…
Baruch H" Zalman is okay!!!!
Next time Yaakov thinks he knows better, just say, "Zalman's finger!" or "Staph!!!!" That should last you until Zalman's bar mitzvah, assuming that in the interim Yaakov doesn't overlook anything else quite so OBVIOUS.
At 10:27 PM, Anonymous said…
Thank G-d you checked with a professional before deciding that your anxiety was the source of your worry. just because someone is paranoid doesn't mean that there's no one following him. I hope your son feels completely better soon!
At 7:25 PM, F said…
Wow! you know, my littlest got her fingers closed in a car door, and all the skin came off in one spot (she was very brave even though she's two--she hardly cried)
So I calmly went to the doctor:
after waiting for about two hours in the local urgent care center, we were let in, and they were just going to send us home after the x-ray came out fine...then my husband called from work freaking out (in Russian which I speak fluently except for medical terms!) that she would get an infection and her finger would fall off...soon I had all the nursing staff calming me down and convincing me that I was over-reacting etc...
NOW I KNOW from reading your post that my husband wasn't over reacting.
So thank you for posting this!
Thank G-d everything turned out okay for your child.
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