Wednesday, September 28, 2005
I checked out a book from the library: "Black, White, Other - Biracial Americans Talk About Race and Identity" I was actually perusing the Jewish books when I came across it.
It made me think a lot.
What does it mean to have a racial identity? These people had some very interesting things to say. Some of them looked totally white, yet self-identified as black. How does that work?
If you asked me to use only one adjective to describe myself, I would say "Jew." It is the very essence of my being. I never thought of myself in terms of color. Would I identify more with my color if I was a racial minority?
I know this girl who has a Jewish father and a Catholic mother. She thinks she's Jewish. According to Jewish law, she is not. What if someone said to her; "Hey, I know you think you're Jewish, but..." How would that make her feel? She has built a large part of her identity around her "Jewishness." That means her whole self-concept is false!
If someone told me I wasn't really a Jew, I'd want to die - or else I'd be in therapy for the rest of my life. Dying would probably be cheaper.
1 Comments:
At 8:43 AM, Anonymous said…
I knew a girl who had actually become frum, based on the premise that she had beleived her whole life- that she was Jewish...when she found out that she actually wasn't Jewish (after taking on frumkeit, hook, line, and sinker), what did she do? she went ahead- and though depressing and terribly confusing as it felt to her- she underwent conversion.
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