Thursday, April 27, 2006
I stay home with my 2 and 4 year old. My 6 year old is in school.
It's not really accurate to say "I stay home." I go on a trip with them every morning until 12 or 1pm. We go to a playground, or grocery shopping, or wherever. I keep them good and busy in the morning.
Srulik normally falls asleep in the car (or shortly thereafter), around 1-ish. He'll sleep for 2 or 2 1/2 hours, and I'll have a quiet afternoon with Rivky. Well, Srulik has decided he won't nap anymore. He refuses to, even though he's loopy tired. As the afternoon wears on, he gets more and more nutty. He gets aggressive and in-your-face, he literally climbs on top of my head or slaps me. Or if I'm doing something like laundry or cooking, he's right on top of me and interfering. Not to mention the attacks on his siblings, like biting them or pulling their clothes (I thought he would tear Rivky's skirt yesterday). As he gets crazier I do too, and for the past week or so I've been yelling at him every afternoon. I know he's exhausted, and I do have compassion for him. But when he's jumping on top of me and slapping my face, it's hard to be nice.
Last night I made supper early for him and bathed him, so I could put him to bed at 5. Normally, bedtime is 8, but he had no nap and was out of control. I put him to bed and he popped right up again. I tried again at 6. Nothing doing. Finally, he went to bed at 7:30, and he was bonkers until then. (And the kicker is he woke up at 6am today!)
I was so drained from my harrowing afternoon yesterday, I didn't do any of my night-time tasks. I crawled wearily into bed at 8:30. Last time I checked, it's illegal to tie up a kid and sedate him. So if anybody has more constructive suggestions, I'd be grateful.
Maybe I need to be sedated!
2 Comments:
At 10:38 PM, Anonymous said…
2 years old seems a typical age for a "stay-at-home-kid" to start weaning off a nap- especially that juicy 2 hour one! I'd suggest - as you already tried -to experiment with earlier bedtime-BUT also make sure to give plenty of wind down time- such as, "Okay, Sruly, it's now 6 pm(or whatever time works for your family)- that means its BEDROOM TIME"
what is "bedroom time"? time to be in the BEDROOM- with a story tape, or a special favorite toy in bed, or in bed with a crayon and colorring book- whatever is relaxing to your kid. In our house we do this (with a revolving repotoirre of any of the above mentionned, but always with a quiet story tape- not anything with exciting music or really funny voices- like totally Forget "Torah Tots" or anything from Shmuel Kunda- way too exciting), and we let the kids have the lights on for 20 or 30 minutes. If there seems to be any wildness going on (we have 2 boys-a 3 yr old and a 4 yr old sharing a room)- then its lights out right away, and the loss of this "special wind down" time.
The truth is that it has streamlined what used to be a laborious and totally draining bedtime routine, and they love this part of the day.
But as has been mentionned here and famously all over the place- keep in mind "this too shall pass"..
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